Wisdom and Knowing When

We continue to draw our gospels from Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. Today the Gospel is taken from Matthew 7 which is the concluding part of the Sermon. The opening verse is not the most attractive saying: Do not give what is holy to dogs, or throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them underfoot, and turn and tear you to pieces. (v.6). It might be surprising to hear such harshness as the verse comes immediately after Jesus has taught “Stop judging…” (v.1) and right before the “golden rule”: “Do to others whatever you would have them do to you.” (v.12)

Dogs in the ancient Near East were generally not household pets. They were scavengers, roaming in packs around villages. They symbolized what was unclean or outside the covenant community. Swine were ceremonially unclean animals according to the Mosaic Law. Jesus is not making a comparison with these two unclean animals and people, rather he is vividly reminding people about holiness. Do not give what is holy…” refers to things consecrated to God. Under the Law, meat from certain sacrifices belonged to God and was never to be treated casually or thrown to animals. The dog will have no concern about the meat having been an offering to God. Pearls, meanwhile, were among the most valuable possessions a person could own. Pigs cannot recognize their value. To a pig, a pearl is no more useful than a pebble. The says something immensely valuable is being offered to someone incapable of recognizing its value.

Across the ages, the Church’s understanding has been consistent. The most common interpretation is that Jesus is teaching discernment and learning to exercise prudence. The Gospel is offered to everyone, but not every moment is the right moment for every conversation. That is when discernment is needed. Sometimes a person is simply not ready to hear. Jesus himself demonstrates this as He speaks differently to the crowds, the disciples, the Pharisees, Pontius Pilate, and King Herod. Before Herod, Jesus remains silent. It is not because Herod is beyond redemption, but because Herod seeks only entertainment, not truth.

Discernment is not a lack of charity. It is part of wisdom.

Jesus is saying evangelization requires wisdom. He is not saying, “Give up on difficult people” as He send the apostles to everyone – even to the ends of the earth. But he also cautions them to seek discernment: “Whatever town or village you enter… if the house is unworthy… leave.” (Mt 10ff) and “if anyone will not welcome you… shake the dust from your feet.” (Mt 10:14) Sometimes continuing an argument only hardens hearts further. Sometimes silence witnesses more powerfully than debate.

This passage may be more relevant today than ever. We live in a culture of constant argument. Social media encourages endless debate. People often feel obligated to respond to every criticism of the Church, every hostile comment, every provocative post. Jesus reminds us that not every discussion is fruitful. Not every argument deserves our participation. Not every critic is genuinely seeking the truth. There is a difference between someone who asks sincere questions and someone who merely wishes to mock, ridicule, or provoke. Wisdom lies in knowing the difference. As Saint Augustine observed, charity itself sometimes requires us to recognize when further discussion will do more harm than good.

There is also another, gentler way to hear this Gospel. Think about the most precious things in your life:

  • your deepest friendships,
  • your love for your family,
  • your most profound experiences of God,
  • moments of prayer that changed your life.

These are pearls. Do not speak about them carelessly. Share them with people who will receive them reverently. The Gospel is the greatest pearl of all. Share it generously but also wisely. Pray for the grace to recognize when a heart is ready to receive it, and when the more loving response is to step back, continue praying, and wait for the Spirit to prepare the soil.

Ultimately, evangelization is not about winning arguments. It is about helping people discover the incomparable pearl that is life in Christ and in so doing encounter holiness.


Image credit: Sermon on the Mount (1877) by Carl Heinrich Bloch, Museum of National History at Frederiksborg Castle, Public Domain

Getting there

he_qi_road_to_emmausLet’s see…where was I? It has been several weeks since I posted about my time in mission in Kenya. In a previous post, The Long Way Round, I was standing in 3.5 feet of snow, shovel in hand, looking down a long driveway to a dirt road that had not yet been plowed and wondering if this was a sign from God about a faulty discernment process to leave the world as I had known it, and serve as a lay missioner in a far away land. Today, if I was looking at the same scene,  I likely would have thought: “this is beautiful and God put it here. Think I’ll enjoy it and let God take care of it in His own good time.” Back then, I dug my way out.

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A certain lack of clarity

DiscernmentIt would seem this is post 3 of 3 about how I ended up in Kenya. In the two preceding days I posted about the role of memory and serendipity. But I think the original inquiry from a regular reader was probably most interested in the discernment process, and how I gained clarity on what the Spirit might be calling me to do. As part of mission formation we were encouraged to journal. One of our assignments was about discerning the call to mission. I did not record a full fledged account of my discernment, but I did record this: Continue reading

As it happens…

St-Francis-de-Sales-churchIn one of yesterday’s posts, I began replying to an inquiry about how I decided to go to Kenya and take up the mantle of missionary. Yesterday was about memories that persist, today’s post is about context in one’s life. As it happens, the story is part geography, part “betwixt and between,” part random question, and part taking-a-chance.

Upon leaving active duty in the Navy, I took a job in Northern Virginia with a tech company. The company’s offices were in Tysons Corner which seemed to me to be very congested and mostly concrete. So I thought to myself, “I hear the Virginia countryside is beautiful, maybe I should look for a house somewhere west of the office.”  I ended up buying a home west of Leesburg and settling into a small town parish. The church was tiny with a seating capacity of 89 (according to the Fire Marshall). The Sunday 7:30 am Mass was in the Church; the other Sunday Mass was in the high school auditorium.

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Commitment

Henry David Thoreau said  “Nature abhors a vacuum.” I suspect most of us have heard that bit of wisdom, but that is not the end of Thoreau’s thought. The full quote is “Nature abhors a vacuum, and if I can only walk this life with sufficient carelessness I am sure to be filled.” I was inspired by the full quote to reflect on a gospel several Sundays ago. It is the bane of our modern existence that there seems to be so much to do and so little time to it all. But then, you are never going to do it all, but what you do – is it aligned with God’s desire for you and are you willing to commit to see it through to its good and fruitful end? “But I don’t have time!” comes the reply. Certainly, far less elegant than Thoreau, but I did run across another quote that gave me a chuckle. “‘But I don’t have time’ is the adult equivalent of ‘the dog ate my homework.’ ” We are called to be careful about how we fill up our lives with commitments. Continue reading