This is the third of a six-part series on my musings about belonging and engagement as individuals and as a parish. Last week I wrote about the way we consider our parish to be thriving – after all, by any measure (Mass attendance, sacraments, ministry, offertory, etc.) we are indeed thriving. We are people who “believe in, sign up, show up, and chip in,” – and so our instinct is to say that believing, volunteering, attendance, and contributing are all things that lead to a sense of belonging and engagement in the faith community. As was noted last week, it turns out these are well-studied things and, in fact, it is belonging that leads to increased believing, volunteering, spiritual growth, and financial support. It raises the question: what are the indicators that individuals and the parish community have a sense of belonging? Continue reading
Category Archives: Musings
Mwangi’s Light
For the Day of Prayer for the Legal Protection of Unborn Children – Jan 22, 2015
Written: October, 1997 – Nairobi, Kenya
Mwangi is a young man in the neighborhood. 20 some years of age in body yet in child or less in development. I have seen him sit for hours on the edge of the lane leading from the slum to the main road. Most people pay him no mind as he will write no great books, he will not lead a nation and may never do more than be this silent sentinel who watches the lane and all the wayfarers who pass along its way Continue reading
Letter from a Birmingham Jail
On Good Friday, April 12th in 1963, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was arrested with Ralph Abernathy, Fred Shuttlesworth and other marchers in Birmingham, Alabama. At about that same time eight Alabama clergymen, while in some support of the goals, wrote a common letter decrying the methods and tactics of Dr. King and the movement for Civil Rights. Dr. King’s response was completed within days. My favorite section follows: Continue reading
Gratuitous – the devolution of a good word
From Merriam Webster’s “Word of Day”
Definition (adjective)
1 : done or provided without recompense : free
2 : not called for by the circumstances : unwarranted Continue reading
What are you looking for?
Jesus turned and saw them following him and said to them, “What are you looking for?”
What Does it Mean to Belong? It is not what you think.
Today’s column is the second of a six-part series. Last week I thought about all life here in the parish and all the ways that we “believe in, sign up, show up, and chip in.” I think our parishioners comprise every permutation and combination of these characteristics. But is any one of these characteristics the key characteristics to belonging and being engaged in our parish? What makes our parish healthy? Continue reading
A homily in a hundred words (Mark 2:1-12)
Sunday the heavens are torn open
Today the roof is torn open
Such are signs of the grace of God pouring into the world
Good friends make an invitation of sorts
Leading you and taking you where you would not necessarily go
Such are signs of the grace of God pouring into your life
The ingenuity of mankind
The presence of Christ
Sins forgiven
Healing at the deepest level
The physical, spiritual, emotional,
Such are the avenues of the grace of God pouring into life
Heavenly portends
Friends coming your way
The presence of Christ
A life forever changed
Musings about Belonging
Over the past year I have been meeting with a group of parishioners about the parish. It has been a wide-ranging discussion about the future, our vision, and such things. One of the topics that came up repeatedly was about “belonging.” Our discussion made us ask, “Have we created a home in this parish where people feel welcomed – but more than that – where they belong?” Continue reading
Night Flowers
The nights are painted with the strokes of a platinum moon, the pale warmth of lanterns in the seller’s stalls, and the crimson embers of the charcoal fires
In the faint light are the late night vendors trying to sell the last of their wares; others waiting for the winding down of the day and the return of their husbands or wives or children; still others are lingering for just a moment more in the fading day. Continue reading
Resolutions for the New Year?
I thought it a good idea to say something about resolutions – it is the New Year and it is a bit of a tradition. Short of ideas? Here are some suggestions from Pope Francis.
- “Take care of your spiritual life, your relationship with God, because this is the backbone of everything we do and everything we are.”
- “Take care of your family life, giving your children and loved ones not just money, but most of all your time, attention and love.”
- “Take care of your relationships with others, transforming your faith into life and your words into good works, especially on behalf of the needy.”
- “Be careful how you speak, purify your tongue of offensive words, vulgarity and worldly decadence.”
- “Heal wounds of the heart with the oil of forgiveness, forgiving those who have hurt us and medicating the wounds we have caused others.”
- “Look after your work, doing it with enthusiasm, humility, competence, passion and with a spirit that knows how to thank the Lord.”
- “Be careful of envy, lust, hatred and negative feelings that devour our interior peace and transform us into destroyed and destructive people.”
- “Watch out for anger that can lead to vengeance; for laziness that leads to existential euthanasia; for pointing the finger at others, which leads to pride; and for complaining continually, which leads to desperation.”
- “Take care of brothers and sisters who are weaker … the elderly, the sick, the hungry, the homeless and strangers, because we will be judged on this.”
Bridges
Today is a fusion of things we celebrate. Certainly first and foremost is the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God. This is also the World Day of Prayer for Peace. …And if that weren’t enough, it is the day we celebrate the start of a New Year – a time when we are ready to resolve so that all things are new, all things can be renewed. Continue reading